The Holloways' Journey to Jin

Spring Break and Easter

2010-04-09T12:59:00.002-05:00

4 Months Together as a Family

2010-03-09T17:12:00.000-06:00

WOW! Four months have passed by quickly as all of us have grown and been stretched. Each day our hearts grow closer together and it is as if Jin has always been with us. His English is improving and his vocabulary expanding. Just the other day he warned his brother when he said, "Gugu, you need to say please to me." As you can see his comprehension is improving too. It is always an adventure at the Holloway Household and for that we are very grateful!

Saturday Morning Play Time

2010-02-20T16:19:00.001-06:00

Saturday morning Clint called me upstairs and warns me to be quiet and bring the camera. What was I walking into?! All I heard as I approached their room were giggles and hearty laughter. Our sweet boys were happily enjoying an all boy tea party.

Umm, umm

A nice cuppa with my brotha

Happy All The Time

2010-02-17T22:15:00.001-06:00

I'm in-right, out-right, up-right, down-right happy all the time.

When Jesus Christ came in and cleansed my heart from sin,

I'm in-right, out-right, up-right, down-right happy all the time.

These are the words to our latest song at church. Well, this morning Mr. Jon Campbell very eloquently merged these lyrics into our morning prayer. It was a beautiful surprise. We have been blessed with a few recent blessing out of the mouths of babes.. A few weekends ago Jon Campbell announces, out of the blue, "I am very happy that I have a new brother to play with!"

Happy all the time

Where one is the other must be at all times. They spend hours playing Batman and Robin, Scooby Doo and Shaggy as well as Thomas the Train and Percy. They are a matched set and have blown us away with their compatibility. Of course they have moments when they aren't "kind to everyone", but boys will be boys. Recently though, Jin said something about China to his brother. Jin Campbell instantly became very distraught and began to cry. He told Jin he didn't want Jin to go back to China because he loved him and would miss him too much!

We rather be playing

Jin's right foot update

2010-02-16T21:53:00.000-06:00

DAFO Tami2

Jin is roughly 2 weeks away from receiving some relief and stability for his right foot. After meeting with an orthopedic surgeon and viewing his x rays the best course of action will be a custom designed foot insert shown above. Jin chose, with the assistance of Jon Campbell, a spaceship theme with blue and yellow straps and padding plus some Scooby Doo mixed in . He will place his foot in this Dafo Tami2 and then it will fit into inside his shoe. Currently, he has complete motion and flexibility of his ankle. This insert will allow that to continue which is essential to his everyday activity. One would never know that he is missing all 5 of his toes on his right foot until.... his shoe flips completely around or jets striaght up. Many people have to do a double take, "Did I just see what I thought I saw?" Jin runs, skips, jumps and dances like any 4 year old just minus 5 toes. He has learned to compensate and adjust and that he does beautifully. The orthopedic surgeon believe he will be fine for years until he becomes an adult and the existing cartilage wears away. Surgery will then be needed. Until that point and as long as he experiences no pain, life will gone on fine. This insert will provide stability and a filler for his shoe to aid in balance.

Monday was his casting appointment. A cast is needed to make the insert according to his exact foot shape and formation. I was unsure how he would react. Again, Mama worried for no reason.. He was perfect and the process was complete in 30 minutes.

A nylon sock was placed on his foot. Then the tubing inserted.

The tubing is used to make the cast removal safe and simple.

Wet gauze coated with a hardening substance is wrapped

around his foot and up a portion of his leg. Jin had to

keep his foot still and not flexed for the

cast to dry in the proper position.

Within minutes his cast was dry and ready to come off.

Hopefully this first try will be right. Mr. Matt used a

blade rather than a saw. He did not want the sound

of the saw to scare Jin.

Success!

Jin and Mr. Matt Bulow of Bulow Biotech Prosthetics

Gung Hay Fat Choy

2010-02-14T22:30:00.002-06:00

We celebrated Chinese New Year with a lot of NOODLES!

We went to the Golden Coast Chinese Restaurant for a great lunch. Papa was a little squemish with the assortment of sea creatures for the choosing. The Golden Coast was packed from wall to wall, but the boys cooperated and we got a great table. It was close to the buffet and in perfect view of the Lion Dance Troop which we anxiously awaited. It was well worth the wait too. The Lion Dance Troop was fantastic.

SMILE PRETTY FOR THE CAMERA :)

The boys are trying to feed the lion some red envelopes

What is China?

2010-02-12T20:00:00.060-06:00

Clint spoke to Jin's class about China today. He had the full attention of all 6 of the three year olds for 25 minutes. It was both very precious and humorous to observe. Both Jin and Ms. Cheryl wore their traditional Chinese dress as well. Clint spoke about eating Chinese food with chopsticks to Chinese letters. Jin was an excellent assistant. Papa and Jin also taught his class a few Chinese phrases. They got a kick out of that. For snack Jin shared fortune cookies and blueberry marshmallows, a Chinese treat, with his friends.

Jin and his panda

Playing the calabash

A calabash is a woodwind instrument similar to the recorder. It is made from a calabash gourd which is also used to make pipes. The mouth piece is made from ox bone. Very detailed painting is done on the front.

Ms. Chery with her students

Jin shares his Chinese books with his friends

These are the books we sent Jin as part of his care package in the orphange once we knew were his "forever" family. They have travelled many miles :)

Jin with his classmates

The 1st SNOW of 2010

2010-01-29T13:22:00.067-06:00

They said there was a 100% chance of snow and for the 1st time they were RIGHT! The snow started to fall mid morning and continued to fall all day just like powdered sugar from the sky. It was beautiful. We went out to explore after lunch and had a great time. At this point there was an accumulation of 2 inches, but it was not sticking to the roads yet. The boys played with their trucks and Super Heroes in the snow for awhile. Batman and Superman were made into frozen pops and seemed to love it?! Then we went on an exploration walk along the creek.

Plowing the snow in the John Deere

Lov'n the SNOW!

The making of frozen Super Hero Pops

Following Papa's footprints in the snow is not so easy

Taking a break and enjoying the scenery together

Our creek

WOW, look at our ice castles!

We can break ice with ease. Hayaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!

Getting ready to make snow ice cream for the 1st time. See the snow we just dug up from the front yard. Be careful you may find a few blades of grass in your ice cream. More importantly, don't eat yellow snow!

The total snow accumulation- 4.5 inches!

Happy Birthday Papa!

2010-01-25T20:00:00.000-06:00

It may be Papa's 37th birthday, but Jin got a great present too...NOODLES

Today is Papa's 37th birthday and we celebrated Chinese style. We had dinner at Fulin's in Brentwood. It is a wonderful Chinese restaurant plus it was voted the best Chinese restaurant of 2009. Jin, as you can see, is grinning from ear to ear. Noodles make him happy all the time. The noodles were then followed by broccoli and snow peas. Jon Campbell surprised us all and ate the deep fried chicken and really liked it. Jin's eating habits just may be rubbing off on him. We had a great time together. We sure do love our Papa. He does so much for all of us and for that we are very grateful. I especially need to tell him that say more often. THANK YOU PAPA! WE LOVE YOU!!!!!

Jin loves snowmen

2010-01-23T17:29:00.001-06:00

All throughout Christmas Jin was amazed and thoroughly excited about Baby Jesus, snow and snowmen. He was able to play in the snow at Grandma and Grandpa's house in Indiana, but sadly there wasn't enough to make a snowman. Have no fear though... He was able to create his own snowman at school. Jin brought it home Friday so please take a look. We hope you enjoy it!

TaDa!

Pancake & Pajama Day in Ms. Cheryl's class

2010-01-22T19:30:00.000-06:00

Jin was very excited to wear pjs to school today. In Ms. Cheryl's class they made pancakes together and wore their pajamas all day. Jin chose his new camo pjs which have a matching robe. He loves his robe because he often says, "COLD, COLD!" What a treat, Papa was on hand to assist as well. He makes one mean pancake.

Camo is the way to go

Stirring the pancake mix

Yum, yum, yummy!

"No butter on mine, please and thank you."

The many phrases of Jin...

2010-01-19T21:38:00.001-06:00

Jin is beginning to put several words together and using them correctly too. Take a look at a few. It is amazing to see his vocabulary grow and his repertoire expand.

I want Gugu.

What's this?
Excuse me, please.

I don't know.

Jin is Ultraman

I want to pray.

Milk please.

Please read.

I love you.

SMILE!

Gugu, I want to play.

Jin's been home for 2 months

2010-01-18T22:46:00.001-06:00

BROTHERS

Jin has been home with us for 2 months now. We can't believe how quickly time has flown. Jin is adjusting very well and is quite happy. Jin and Jon Campbell love playing together, reading together, watching dvds together and most of all laughing together. There are many "ah" moments. Tonight before tuck in time I noticed Jin's very dry, chapped lips. Jon Campbell jumps out of bed to grab his chapstick. He leans over Jin's bed and says, "Jin, do your lips like this." Jon Campbell patiently applies chapstick to Jin's lips without being asked.

Jin loves Thomas the Tank Engine, Percy, milk, chocolate, bananas, oranges, veggies, rice, crackers, noodles, cherry tomatoes, fish, Lightning McQueen, Batman, books, and the list goes on and on.

Jin completed his 1st week of school at Judson Baptist. He loves his teacher, Ms.Cheryl and playing, playing and more playing.

Jon Campbell loves his brother. Every evening wearing matching pjs is a must per Jon Campbell.

We are very fortunate to live in a city with a wonderful children's hospital. Jin has been examined and observed by numerous doctors since his arrival. Currently, we are working to complete all needed shots. It is very common to discover the ones he had were not "active" or "good". The vaccine serums may have been old or not properly stored at the adequate temperature. He is a trooper!

Do you know what this is?

After failing his hearing test we realized Jin's ears were clogged. Clogged is an understatement. Apparently Asian ear wax is different than others. When it hardens it turns to cement and cement it was. Sweet Jin sat with a towel around his neck, I held a small basin on his shoulder while the nurse flushed his ears with a bottle and a half of warm water with a hot pink liquid. Once freedom was found the wax balls each dropped with a thud into the basin. WOW!

Their 1st joint cooking venture

The Holloway Pizzeria is open for business

Jin's 1st Day of School- YEAH!

2010-01-18T21:10:00.000-06:00

Wednesday, January 6th was Jin's 1st day of school at Judson Baptist. He was very excited! He could be heard throughout the house calling out, "School, School, I'm going to SCHOOL!" Armed with his new shoes, Lightning McQueen lunchbox and turtle bag, Jin marched into his new classroom ready to start his 1st day. Honestly, I was a ball of nerves and very unsure how Jin would do or what he would understand. As usual I was wrong and Jin had a simply perfect day. Clint and I walked him in where he was all ready to jump in and play with the toys. He didn't even look back which is a good thing, right?!

Jin with his Gugu (big brother)

As Jon Campbell walked out the door for school, he called back to Jin, "Have a good day and be a how bow, bow!"

I am ready to go to school!

The turtle bag is all packed and Jin is ready to go,

But Mama has to snap one more picture!

Jin and his teacher, Ms. Cheryl

Our family is blessed by Ms. Cheryl. She is very warm and loving and greets Jin with a hug and huge smile. She is a perfect 1st teacher for Jin. Ms. Cheryl's note after his first day read, "Jin had an awesome day! He is so sweet and obeyed extremely well! He ate every bite if his lunch and our snack. The only area that is hard to understand is routine (when we can play with toys, when we read books quietly, etc.) I will try to make a picture schedule to help with that. He is precious!"

1st piece of artwork

To celebrate Jin's 1st day we celebrated with gelato at Whole Foods

We're going for a ride!

Ringing in the New Year with Yong Ming

2010-01-18T19:38:00.000-06:00

Jin's best buddy and playmate in the orphanage was Yong Ming. Two newborns growing up together, there is a good chance they were in the same room. Yong Ming, now named Joshua, was blessed with a forever family last summer. He was adopted by wonderful people, Doug and Terrie Pilz, from Michigan. The Pilz family had earlier adopted a little girl from the same orphanage. Her name is now Brianna and is approximately the same age. For more than a year all three of these children would have been together in the orphanage. We were told from the orphanage officials that Jin became very depressed and withdrawn when Joshua left. Can you blame him? He lost one of the people in his world he loved the most. Doug and Terrie have been a blessing to us from the moment we received the first email. Their wonderful advice, important information, wise experience and many prayers eased our anticiapted trip and adjustments with Jin. We knew we had to meet and reunite the boys. What a blessing it was!

We love to play

My dear, thoughtful husband loves surprises. He is good at keeping them and this one was a doozy! The Pilzs drove to Indiana to meet us! Yes, can you believe it? Clint told Terrie we would be there for Christmas and wondered the possibility of meeting them half way? After looking at the map they are only 4 hours away from goood 'ole Bluffton. Jin was very excited and repeated Yong Ming's continuiously until his arrival. Our entire family awaited this exciting event. For Jin to see and spend time with his best buddy and "family" was going to be just perfect. And perfect it was. The boys seemed to pick up where they left off. They played, laughed, ran around, colored, ate, hugged and read together just like brothers. Jon Campbell didn't want to miss one bit and loved sitting next to Yong Ming for dinner. As for the adults, we laughed, talked, talked some more and shared stories. Yet again it was perfect!

Jin and Joshua

The sweet little girl in the picture below is Joshua's sister. Brianna or "B" was adopted by the Pilzs when she was 14 months old. B is from the same orphanage as the boys; it is likely that all 3 kids were in the same room as babies. So we had a house full of 4 year olds- Brianna, Joshua, Jin and Jon Campbell.

Merry Christmas 2009

"B", Jin, Joshua

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

TOGETHER AGAIN

Meeting more family

2010-01-16T22:04:00.000-06:00

Jin met his Great Grandmother, Ferne Holloway, for the first time. Great Grandma Holloway is his Papa's Grandmother, and Jin's only living Great Grandparent. The mother of 12, Grandmother of nearly 30 and Grant Grandmother of an ever-growing clan, Ferne is the matriarch of the family, no but's about it.

SAY CHEESE!

The boys with Great Grandma

OH, BOY!!!!

Clint, Jon Campbell, Great Grandma, Jin, Samuel and Uncle Clif

"Please read me Thomas."

Jin with Great, Great Aunt Marie

The boys never had a chance...

Uncle Boots terrorizing the boys

Who will win?

Our trips to Indiana must always include a visit to Decatur to see Uncle Boots and Aunt Marie. Uncle Boots is the brother of Clint's maternal Grandmother. It is always a treat to visit these dear, Godly people, full of wisdom and love. Uncle Boots turned 90 this year, the last of his generation and one of the Greatest Generation who fought in World War II. He also has a great sense of humor which loves to banter back and forth with Clint. Uncle Boots always wins with his zingers. For our boys Uncle Boots and Aunt Marie represent a link to their history and heritage. AND Aunt Marie is the best cook ever!

Uncle Clay, there are fun things to do in Bluffton!

2010-01-16T22:02:00.001-06:00

During our Indiana Christmas celebration, Grandma made surprise arrangements for the boys which knocked their socks off! Jin and Jon Campbell received a private tour of the Bluffton Fire Department from Fireman Tim. They tried out Engine 101, along with the ladder and rescue trucks. They absolutely loved the tour topped off with a ringing of the fire bell. Jin was amazed while Jon Campbell was full of questions and added his own fire details from his classroom fieldtrip.

Bluffton Fire Department

Jin and Jon Campbell with Fireman Tim

READY, AIM, FIRE!

Steps of the Bluffton County Courthouse

The Holloways hit the BIG SCREEN!

2010-01-15T21:00:00.002-06:00

With it being so cold in Indiana, going to the movies was a great choice. WOW! Jin's eyes were as big as saucers when he saw the movie screen. The theater was full for the showing of Alvin and the Chipmunks- The Squeakquel so we had to sit on the second row. Sam was very excited as well because this was his first big screen adventure. Armed with drinks, pretzels, crackers, a lot of popcorn (emphasis on a lot) plus soda, the boys were glued, for the most part, to the screen. Those chipmunks are hilarious and Grandma enjoyed them too.

Simon, Alvin and Theodore

Christmas in Indiana

2010-01-15T20:31:00.000-06:00

Grandpa and the boys

"Can we open the presents now? PLEEEEEEEEASE, can we?"

Santa came to Bluffton instead of sleeping after the big day

Grandma and Aunt Tammy arranged for a special, surprise visitor to arrive for our family Christmas festivities. We heard a knock, knock, knock at the front door Sunday morning. Jin answered it to find Santa awaiting with his arms full of gifts for all the boys. Jin was very excited!

Playing with Uncle Pookums... He is the best toy unpackager/assembler

Batman with his Batcave along with the Space Shuttle were the highlights. The boys played with all their new toys all week and enjoyed every minute. It was a wonderful 2nd Christmas!

The Cousins- Jin, Sam & Jon Campbell

You want us to smile for another picture? HA, HA, HA, HA!

Being a Connecticut gal myself I love the snow and wish we had more in Tennessee. Seeing that my wish is not often granted I wish very hard and maybe throw in a few Hail Marys when we are in Indiana for Christmas. Although, I believe I am the only one over the moon when the snow falls during our visit. This Christmas my wish was granted once again! We had a blast outside throwing snowballs and catching snowflakes on our tongues!

Mama, you better duck!

Upon seeing the snow fall Jon Campbell exclaimed, "Mama, we got our Christmas wish!!"

Jin had a blast sweeping the snow

Jin was so happy to play in the snow. Jon Campbell tried to hit him with a few snowballs, but Jin did not retaliate at all. Jin found a broom on the front porch and amused himself sweeping off the sidewalk and cars. Who would've thought?!

Papa had to hold the boys in place for this picture!

Who has ants in their pants? Aunt Tammy or Jin?

'Twas The Night Before Christmas

2010-01-15T10:25:00.000-06:00

The boys were a glow with excitement and wonder with Christmas just a short sleep away. Christmas Eve we spent together at church where the kids watched the latest Veggie Tales story called St. Nicholas. Check it out, it's great. On our way home Christmas lights are a must with drive bys of our favorite locations. After dinner with the little ones dressed in their new Christmas pjs Papa read 'Twas the Night Before Christmas and the Christmas Story from the Bible. With the boys calmly tucked in and prayers said they drifted off to sleep awaiting Santa Claus' arrival. Clint and I starred in amazement at our lovely boys. Again we are amazed how this year unfolded. Jin is now our son, Jon Campbell has a brother and God has completed our family. THANK YOU

and all thru the house

2 small creatures were stirring

with the help of a mouse

the stocking were hung

by the cardinal tree with care

in hopes that Saint Nicholas soon would be there...

Stocking straight from China

Christmas Twins

Papa's boys on Christmas morning

I LOVE Thomas the Train

Now Buzz Lightyear has a buddy

"It's what we always wanted... Thomas the Train Spin & Fix!"

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.

A little flour, a few eggs and don't forget the butter...

2010-01-14T23:13:00.000-06:00

and you get yummy, delicious cookies! Every Christmas we bake cookies together with Ms. Kim from the Dining Hall. It is a blast and decorating them is the best part. Although more sprinkles and icing may end up on the floor the end results in many yummy Christmas cookies. The best part is sharing them. This year we took a huge plate of them to the Franklin Fire Department.

The Two Happy Bakers

Brotherly Love & Working Together :)

Yummy!

December was a very busy month!

2010-01-14T22:56:00.000-06:00

After being home for a couple weeks many Christmas festivities and "firsts" were headed Jin's way.

1st Taste of "American" Chinese Noodles- Not too bad!

Helping Mama in the kitchen make mashed potatoes

Our church delivers lunch once a month to the Franklin Fire Department, just around the corner from the church, and we signed up for a "side". Jin and Mama had fun in the kitchen, without too much mess, and whipped up the creamest, smoothest, best ever mashed potatoes. He loved helping in the kitchen. Watching the mixer whirl around was a lot of fun.

Jin's Gingerbread Garland

Jin and I headed downtown to the library for a "creative" activity to usher in Christmas. He loved decorating his gingerbreadmen with glitter and sticky foam designs. I was impressed with his detailed interest and intent. Above you will find his final creation. Then we went to Farmer's Market to scrounge up real Chinese noodles raman style at the International Market. Jackpot! Jin chose Manchurian and Schezwan. Can you guess what we had for lunch? NOODLES :) Jin consumed 4 cups of milk with his noodles while hardly speaking a word. Something was wrong... I tasted his noodles and found the answer. THEY WERE SPICY HOT!!!!!! Poor thing, he wanted noodles so badly he was willing to eat them spice and all.

Jin visits Jon Campbell's classroom after the Christmas Concert

Here comes Santa Claus right down Santa Claus Lane...

Jin grabs another "photo op" with Santa at Thomas' birthday party. It was a great party full of cookies, milk and a story read by Santa.

Our 1st visit to the Schermerhorn Symphony Center

We listened to magicial Christmas music with visits from the Grinch and Santa Claus. The boys enjoyed the singing, stories and the amazing orchestra. Thank you Owens for the tickets. The symphony center is amazing.

Jin's 1st Visit to MY GYM

2010-01-13T13:49:00.002-06:00

The ball pit is great!

Jon Campbell has gone to MY GYM for a year now and absolutely loves it. It has improved his confidence and gross motor skills in a big way. Ms. Stacey, Ms. Kristen and Ms. Lindsey do an amazing job and encourage their students to do their best and try new things. Jin had no idea what MY GYM would be, but it was obvious to all that it is amazing!

I've fallen and can't get up!

Jin runs, jumps, skips and hops all over the place and MY GYM was no different. He was a tad shy and nervous without his socks, but within minutes he was in the thick of it all. Jin was born with a right foot abnormality. He is missing all his toes and a portion of his right foot. Inspite of this Jin functions and lives life to its fullest. You don't know what you are missing if you never had it to begin with.

Has anyone seen Jon Campbell?

Jin and Santa Claus for the 1st time

Open House held for Us 4

2010-01-13T13:04:00.004-06:00

Sunday, December 6th, our family was showered with love, hugs, smiles, wonderful food and gifts to welcome us home and meet Jin. Our dear friends, Peggy Myers, Donna Cummings and Pat Moneypenny, hosted this warm gathering. Jin was armed with his beautiful smile, great hugs and growing English vocabulary. Jin has never met a stranger. You realize that after he jumps in your arms and plants a kiss on your cheek. He continues to adjust very well while his vocabulary list grows with great confidence!

Getting a smooch from Ms. Peggy

A BIG HUG from Ms. Fran

Ms. Renee and Jin reading a magazine together

WOW!

Showing Ms. Kathy my truck

Jin and Caleb

Papa and the Huddlestons

Jin and the Coulters

Thank you very much Pat, Peggy, & Donna!

Little Voices Singing at Morningside

2010-01-13T12:32:00.003-06:00

Frosty the snowman was a happy, jolly soul, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, We Wish You a Merry Christmas, Rudolph the RED nosed reindeer had a very shiny nose...

We took the younger children from church to sing carols and share Christmas wishes to the residents of Morningside Assisted Living in Franklin. All the kids were excited to spread some Christmas Cheer and sing out loud and clear. They just love to sing!

We were a little uncertain how Jin would react to his 1st field trip since Jon Campbell woke up with a fever and a bad stomach bug. Jin was singing solo. Well, all that worry for nothing. Jin did a great job and stood up and sang all the songs with his new friends. In fact, it was our first visit to Morningside which all the kids sang the entire time with smiles and no tears! YEAH!!!! It was beautiful.

Jin's American Singing Debut

2010-01-13T12:09:00.001-06:00

We no sooner arrived home and Jin's first task, which helped him learn English, was to learn a song for our church Christmas program. "Baby Jesus" is a short song with hand motions sung to the tune of Are You Sleeping Brother John? With help from his brother and constant repition he got it and did a great job singing with his friends too! All of the younger children dressed as barn yard animals for their song. Jon Campbell was a little gray donkey and Jin a cow.

Baby Jesus, Baby Jesus please don't cry, please don't cry

Don't you know we love you, don't you know we love you

Yes we do, yes we do.

Baby Jesus, Baby Jesus look who's here, look who's here

Shepherds come to praise you, shepherds come to praise you

With their lambs, with their lambs.

Baby Jesus, Baby Jesus look who's here, look who's here

Kings with lots of presents, Kings with lots of presents

Just for you, just for you.

Baby Jesus, Baby Jesus listen now, listen now

Angels voices singing, angels voices singing

We love you, yes we do!

Preparing for Christmas

2010-01-12T16:20:00.001-06:00

Hanging of the Greens

Jon Campbell singing with his choir at Creivewood United Methodist

The first weekend of December we decorated the house for Christmas. Jin is fascinated with everything and this time was no different. He loves the different colored ornaments and wanted to touch every one. Papa has a collection of Misfit Toy ornaments and finger puppets that were a huge hit. Jon Campbell claimed to be Frosty and Jin was Santa.

Many, many years ago my Great Uncle Carl built a manger which we set out and fill with a beautiful nativity set my brother gave us our first married Christmas. Both boys wanted to place the baby Jesus in his hay bed of course. All of this has been Jin's first encounter with Christmas. In China, Christmas is not celebrated except for the younger generation which is beginning to now to obseve this western holiday. While in China, Starbucks was decorated for Christmas. The hoilday menu included a fantastic Chocolate Covered Cherry Mocha. Yummy :) We explained to Jin, in the most simple of words, the story of Baby Jesus' birth. Jon Campbell helped us share the beautiful story and instructed Jin to repeat after him several important terms. Now, no matter where we go if Jin sees a nativity scene you will hear him blurt out at the top of lungs..."Baby Jesus!"

We often wonder does he get it? What is he actually understanding day to day. I know I am a proud parent and I should not boast, but he is very smart. We all love Christmas lights so one Sunday night we took the scenic route home and passed by many homes decked out in an array of colored lights. Out of the blue and without any prompting Jin says, "How beautiful!"

Hanging an ornamnet for the 1st time on our cardinal tree

Come on cardinal sit on the branch!

Merry Christmas to all!

Family Pictures at Cheekwood Botanical Gardens or so I thought...

2009-12-23T11:09:00.000-06:00

Saturday following Thanksgiving we decided to go to Cheekwood because the weather was perfect to take some family photos before the cold settled in. It was a picture perfect day with a bright blue sky, warm sun shing bright with just a twinge of briskness in the air so wearing a sweater was perfect. Cheekwood is so beautiful with the trees, floweing bushes and various natural backdrops. But now I know why people hire photographers... 2 four year olds posing for natural looking pictures just before lunch was not one of my more brillant ideas for sure. We laughed, we cried, we stomped our feet. It makes for a great memory.

This is one of my favorites of Jin and Jon Campbell. The seem to pose best with their arms swung around each other and smiles then follow.

Introducing.....drum roll please...

The Holloway Boys

Jin was mezmorized as he observed the ducks floating in the pond. I couldn't get the camera fast enough to catch his wonder and amazement. It is magical to watch him take in a new experience for the first time. The last time Jin saw ducks they were stuffed in a cage watching to be chosen for dinner.

Well, as little boys will do Jon Campbell runs around to the other side of the pond closest to the ducks and bellows out these loud honks and you guessed it... the ducks flew away :( It was sad and very comical. Clint and I had to stifle the laughter.

US FOUR

Baba... stop laughing so much!

Papa and his boys in a picture perfect moment no one could've planned

Are we fininshed yet!!!!!!!! comes a squawk from the birdcage

What we love to do the most

Please note...visitors are not supposed to take pictures of Cheekwood furniture, but one had already done so before one was made aware of this rule :)

Chinese dress

Journal Entry- Monday, November 23, 2009 plus What a Thanksgiving!

2009-12-23T10:05:00.000-06:00

Hello from the Holloways,
We have been home for 10 days now and doing very well. Jon Campbell is under the weather, but enjoying his new brother! I have updated our blog with pictures since our return. If you have time please take a look. Jin is adjusting quite well. Communication is progressing and everyday we know he is understanding more and with that will come actual phrases and sentences. If you tell him to wash his hands, go to the bathroom etc he understands and takes action. Today he asked for milk on his own and he is doing well with "thank you" and "please." His smile is contagious and he is interested in everything.

In days we will gather around a beautiful table full of fantastic food, that won't smile or wave back to you :), in utter joy and wonder as our family is now complete. The past 3 years have been long and unexpected, but so worth the wait. Who knew what the Lord had in store for us?!

Thank you for support, hugs, shoulders to cry on, advise, concern, love, joy and the list goes on and on.......

Love,
The Holloways (Clint, Adele, Jon Campbell and Jin)

Creating a gingerbread house together

THANKSGIVING MORNING

We had to have Krispie Kreme donunts- the HOT light was on!

Come on Mama! We want some donuts :)

We stopped at the park to play and eat our donuts. It was very cold so we didn't play that long, but we did play in the beautiful fall leaves. We took a bucket full home to decorate the house later. YIPEE!!!

Story time with Baba

Look at the muscles on this turkey :)

Dear Lord, we thank you for smiles, giggles, and ...

blessing our family, near and far, with your faithful love and promises.

Our cups run over with gladness!

We are blessed beyond measure and thank you with our grateful hearts.

Journal Entry- Friday, November 13, 2009 home in Nashville, TN

2009-12-22T21:20:00.000-06:00

In short as it us midnight, we did make it back to Nashville safely and landed at 9:50 pm. We are all tired, but doing well. The boys are having a blast! We will update you more later.

Good night

Journal Entry- Friday, November 13, 2009 from Shanghai

2009-12-22T21:16:00.001-06:00

Hello All,

You did not hear from us yesterday as it was a very busy day and included the first leg of our travel home. We finished up in Guangzho, did some final shopping, packed, cleared up our rooms, had lunch and so forth. By 3 pm we were at the American Consulate in Guangzhou along with about 50 American families to finalize paperwork and take the oath for the children to become US Citizens, which actually happens the moment we hit customs in the US. It was an interesting process where paperwork was finalized and such. Though we waited some time, over an hour, it took only a few minutes. Technically, you are not allowed to get the child's visa until the next day but as we were to fly to Shanghai our guide, Susan, had worked it out ahead of time to get our visa for Jin and the others in the travel group. How she accomplished this, as it is not standard government procedure, is beyond us. It was certainly a God thing! Praise God from whom all blessings flow !

It was very sad saying goodbye to Susan.

Afterwards Susan had pizzas waiting in the van and so to celebrate our visas our travel group had a pizza party in the van on the way to the airport. We got checked in fine, but our flight was delayed a few minutes. After arriving in Shanghai we found that there were a few problems but we had a driver and a guide who took us to our hotel, the Holiday Inn in the Pudong district of Shanghai. It was 11:30 pm when we arrived at the hotel only to find that for the three families there was only one room. After a lot of fussing and calls back to Susan they finally found us rooms in the hotel. Tired, but triumphant, we crashed into bed about 12:30 or 1 a.m.

"Say Cheese!"

Our adoring Chinese onlookers- I just had to get a picture of them

"Look Leila, that is our plane."

Jin and Leila shared one final conversation before boarding the plane.

We're leav'n on a jet plane. Don't know when we'll be back again

Oh, babe I hate to go

Pandas heading to America

We do not have a guide today, that was part of our troubles of yesterday. That means seeing the sites of Shaghai is out of the question. So we will wait it out in the hotel until our driver, Mr.Li, comes to pick us up at 1. The international airport is 45 minutes away. Then we leave on Continential flight 86, at 4:55 pm for Newark. we arrive in Newark at 6:30 pm ....only a 2 hour flight!!!! (we wish! .....Plus 12, as we fly north, over the Artic, rather than around the world). We are scheduled to leave Newark 6:30 and arrive in Nashville at 10:37 pm. We are so looking forward to being home.

It has been an amazing trip, so full of new experiences, foods, people and sights. But it has also been stressful, exhausting and stretched us in what we thought we could do. It seems as though it has been two months since we left home, not two weeks. But it has also been a time of growth and amazing opportunities to see God at work. We thank you who have helped us along the way and those who have prayed and encourages us, and those who have helped keep an eye on Jon Campbell, in our absence, especially his beloved grandmothers, Karin and Kathy.

We need your prayer for several things:
*Safety in travel and timely flights without delays or glitches
*Jin (and all of us!) as he has to sit on the plane for 14 hours. Hopefully he will sleep some.
*Adele (and me so a slighter extent) is still badly congested with a head cold

Much love, The Holloways

Journal Entry- Wednesday, November 11, 2009

2009-12-22T20:54:00.001-06:00

Hello Friends!

Today was our fifth day in Guangzhou and our last full day. Being that today is Veteran's day in the US and the the US consulate has the day off we had no official paperwork duties today. Our adventures for the day included a visit to the pearl market and the purse market.

Bags and bags of pearls lined the store walls

An endless possibility of pearls

She can knot pearls in her sleep. It looks so easy.

This morning we went to the wholesale pearl market which is in a six story building loaded with hundreds of tiny shops filled to the brim with all sorts of semi-precious stones and pearls. We saw shops filled just with amber, turqouise, malachite, jade and pearls. It was unbelievable to see so many thousands of stones. In the pearl shop we visited, on the sixth floor, we saw bag after bag of pearls....we mean garbage bage after garbage bag of pearls. Every color in the rainbow. There were so many pearls that there were even loose pearls laying on the floors like debris. We bought a particulalrly lovely strand of pearls that we intend to put away for Jin to someday give to his bride, should there ever be a day. You just cannot imagine the millions of pearls in this store! It actually made you think that pearls are not really as valuable as the price we invest in them!

The pearl market was followed by a trip to the grocery store where we stocked up on tea, candy and other sweets to bring home to make our sweet boys sweeter! The grocery was two stories underground and was quite a cultural experience, much larger than the market we frequented in Lanzhou. The meat market was fascinating with several varieties of cured sausages openly on display as well as dried, cured ducks! See photo.

Dried duck- don't they make your mouth water?!

A post shopping treat from Susan, our guide

A lichee we think?

After lunch in the hotel deli, Adele, the guide - Susan, Melissa Coy and Amy Kellam went to the wholesale purse market in search of Burberry bags. For two and a half hours they rummaged through a wholesale market (equally large as the pearl market) in search of the perfect bag! It was a little glimpse of heaven for this quartet! Bags, bags, bags! And yes, Adele did come home with a pretty high quality knock-off!

While Mama was shopping, Jin and I went swimming in the pool on the roof of the fourth floor. It was his first swim and though the water was a little cold he enjoyed it quite a lot!

Dinner tonight was at a Cantonese restaurant; yet another variation on the Chinese cuisine! It was delicious, so delicious we had the guide order more food, which was a first for us!

Today we had an amazing downpour, after which there was a lovely breeze. A good way to end our last evening in Guangzhou. Tomorrow we will check out of the hotel, go to the Consulate where at 3:30 pm (1:30 am in Nashville) we will take the oath for Jin and he will become a United States citizen! The dream of so many countless millions around the world. So before you go to bed tonight please remember us in your prayers as we take this monumental step in his life -and ours!

After the ceremony we will go to the airport where we will board a flight for Shanghai, where we will spend the night. From there we will make our last post, we beleive, and then, we will board the long, long flight to Newark, then Nashville, then home to Briarwood Drive!

Journal Entry- Tuesday, November 10, 2009

2009-12-22T20:25:00.001-06:00

Hello Friends, Happy Tuesday!

It is hard to believe, but we are already counting down the days in China, the trip is quickly coming to a close in just a few more days. Today our Guide, Susan, had our appointments at the Consulate and all went well. We signed the visa application and it started to be processed today. As tomorrow is Veteran's Day in the US the American Consulate also has the day off thereby delaying us a day! On Thursday, we will take the oath for Jin and then be on our way home, via Shanghai, on Friday!

We are not quite sure about this Mom?!

Walking across a swinging bridge is cool!

I just wish it were cooler outside :)

"It's not fair. Lily has longer legs."

Today was another slow day due to the need to be available for paperwork. This morning we took the children to a nearby park that covered a couple of hundred acres. It was large and lush with semi-tropical foliage. Here fichus trees grow as large as maples at home! There were many things to see in the park and things for the children to do. However, the heat was stifling and hung around us like a wet wool blanket. Pictured above is Jin with his friend, Lily, on their first little kiddie roller coaster ride. They had fun, despite the heat. By 12:30 we retreated to the comforts of our hotel room to cool off in the luxurious air conditioning. A person could easily get used to 5 stars....but you know, as nice as it is, there is no place like home.

We had lunch at McDonalds and somehow managed to order 3 Big Mac meals instead of the #3 Big Mac meal...oh well, something to laugh about! Also, above is a picture of our Papa John's pizza from last night just as proof.... Tonight we were treated to a Manchurian meal, the distinctive feature was lots of red peppers! At the center of the photo you will see a large HOT pot of fish.

Eggplant- Chinese style

Another dish was of mushrooms which one menu described as black fungus. Appetizing! The tea tonight was very distinctive, made of barley. It tasted rather like diluted soy sauce. It has been interesting to try the various regional Chinese specialties and the subtle nuances of the different areas. Every one of them does rice and noodles differently, for example.

As we walked to the restaurant tonight we passed a "fish mongers" which displayed the various fish, turtles, eels, bugs, and ducks on the stoop in large tanks and cages all very much alive and breathing! I just don't like to have to apologize to my dinner before eating it....

If only a duck could squeeze thru one of these holes.

Face it guys, there is no way out.

Ahoy mates!

Our big adventure today was a night time boat trip along the Pearl River in a wooden boat, a replica of a traditional Junk. It was really beautiful to see the city lit up in all its multicolored splendor; many of the buildings have beautiful lights and light shows on them; many, many colors of "neon." Jin loved the boat ride too as he sat still and memorized for one hour. We traveled only a few miles of the 2,100 KM distance of the Pearl but enjoyed the coolness of the water and the fantastic architecture of the city. By the way, Guangzhou is a city of 16 plus million people. Just as we got off it started to rain and rain pretty good. This was the first rain we have seen in China and is a welcome break from the heat.

We had an interesting incident in Starbucks the other day that we forgot to relate. While waiting Adele and Jin struck up a conversation with a young Chinese woman who spoke remarkably good English (having learned it from TV!) She asked Jin where he was from, which province. When it was answered Gansu she then asked him if he was of the Gansu people, to which he replied, "No, I'm American!" So they taught him something in the orphanage! Actually, there are 56 minority groups in China, but Jin is from the majority people group, the Han. His province, having once been important on the Silk Road, had a number of Romans 2000 years ago, that interbred with the locals. So some have said they see Roman in his face. I guess that is all speculation. But I do know that on Thursday he really is American!

Blessings to you all,
The Holloways

Journal Entry- Monday, November 9, 2009

2009-12-22T12:08:00.001-06:00

Hello Friends!

This morning we were back on Shamain Island. If anyone wants to read more about the place where we have spent much of the last three days there is an interesting article on Shamain Island on wikipedia at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shamian_Island

The reason we had to go back today was to have the children's TB tests checked. The good news is all three children were negative after two days. This mean, one, that they do not have TB, but second, that we are cleared, medically, to return to the US on Friday! Praise the Lord!

Of course, a return to Shamain Island also meant more eating and shopping. Each of the three familes also bought extra suitcases to bring home our plunder! Picture above is a shot of us with "Jack," a store keep with whom Adele had two particularly vigorous bartering sessions. She drives a hard bargain!

Our friend Jack. He gave us a great deal!

One interesting site on the Island each day has been the presence of numerous brides and grooms decked out in their full regalia having their photographs taken. With its parks, trees, tropical foliage and cetury old architecture there are many places for unique photographs. On one particular stairwell leading to an ancient verandah we have seen brides all three days. The wedding dresses and "tuxedoes" are sometimes quite over the top!

Lily and Jin chatting away in the van

"So what do you think of your Mom and Dad?"

We have mentioned numerous times the other two families in our travel group. The Kellams are from Indiana, and adopted 6 year old Lily and the Coys, from Ohio, adopted 2 year old Leila. One of the pictures shows Jin and Lily today having a discussion, in Chinese of course, about who knows what. though several times we did hear the words "Ultra Man," which is a Chinese action figure. It was the first time they had seemed to communicate with one another. It was very sweet. Jin has also seems to be smitten with Leila, age 2. She is a sweet little girl.

We don't have any gastronomical food tales today...save one.... But first, each morning we eat breakfast at the buffet in the hotel dining room. Quite a change from our usual fare of cold cereal at home. It always includes American, British and Chinese choices. The hotel dining room also has a small play area for children. Now there is a hotel that knows it's clientele! Lunch was another splendid Thai meal. One dish was a fish, yes, with the head still on! For dinner, we couldn't seem to find anything that was appealing, despite the fact that we walked a couple of blocks and checked three hotel dining rooms! In the end of the day we ordered a pizza from Papa John's! The funny thing was we had it delivered and it was late because the delivery bike was broken and so they had to bring it on the metro, or subway! Ok, so for the interesting food we noted today...on our walk we passed a few street vendors and one offered us a dried bat on a stick....sort of like jerky! I guess it goes without saying we refused it! Our guide Sally had said that in Guangzhou we would encounter all sorts of food, and she was right. The saying is "they will eat anything that flies, except an airplane and anything with legs, except a table!"

Yummy, yummy pizza! Mama, you can have the garlic butter.

Well, that about cover it for today. May the Lord bless you in many ways today!
The Holloways

Journal Entry- Sunday, November 8, 2009

2009-12-21T17:55:00.002-06:00

Good Sunday Morning to the Western Hemisphere! The sun has set here in the east and at the close of the day we give thanks for this day that the Lord has made!

This morning we gathered in worship at Christ Church on Shamain Island, built by the British in 1865 when Canton was an important port in the British Empire. The church service was in both Mandarin and English. What a blessing it was to share in fellowship with these believers who are able to openly worship the Lord despite restrictions on worship in other parts of this country. For example, our guide is part of a house church which has several branches, no house being big enough to hold them all. Though they too worship rather freely they are pretty sure there is a spy in their midst. How blessed we are in America to worship with no fear of whom might be watching.

Inside God's big house in China

Shamian Christ Church

After Church our group had a nice lunch of 'normal Chinese' food then we went to the famous White Swan Hotel, a landmark on the island, where we had group photos taken of our travel group and of our three little china dolls all dressed in their red silks. This is the famous 'red couch' picture that is a symbol to many adoptive families that their dreams have come true! The gorgeous waterfall is also inside the hotel...Nashvillians, does it remind you of the Opryland Hotel?

But I want to go down there!

Forever Friends

Leila, Jin and Lily

2 yrs., 4 yrs. and 6 yrs. old

1, 2, 3 SMILE!

Look at me!

With the photo shoot under our belt we set off for a couple of hours of shopping around the island. We ordered a few things to be made which we will pick up tomorrow. Adele even tried her hand at bargaining and nearly came away with the whole store for under $50!

We treated ourselves to a Starbucks visit in the afternoon! Yes, there is a Starbucks on the island and one in our hotel. We had green tea lattes. Not sure they will make it in the American market? Returning to the hotel we spent Sunday afternoon at rest, for dinner I (Clint) walked across the street to McDonalds and got us Big Macs and a Happy Meal?!? Ah, the Golden Arches! What do you think about all this American influence on the east?

The next few days will be slow as we await the official paperwork to be completed and wait for the consulate appointments, etc. Thank you for your continued prayers; the pollution is getting to us again, as well as the drastic change in tempreatures (Snow last Sunday in Beijing, near 90 and high humidity this week in Guagzhou!). May you have a blessed Sunday!

And Happy 64th birthday, Mom!

Clint for the Holloways

Journal Entry- Saturday, November 7, 2009

2009-12-21T14:05:00.000-06:00

Hi family and friends, Ni Hao (knee how),

It is Saturday early evening as we send you greetings from smog free (sorta) and steamy Guangzhou.

We arrived here late last night after taking Jin on his very first flight. He did great, though a wiggle worm. It was very uneventful which is a very good thing indeed. The entire flight he entertained himself with the airline headset and switched to each and every music style possible. It was comical to watch too. He also enjoyed "reading" the daily newspaper and emergency response cards found in the seat pockets. He truly enjoys perusing magazines and newspapers.

Our last day in Lanzhou was very good....that being said, we are glad to have that part behind us. I think we now have some feeling of what it must be like to be a person who is looked down upon, or stared at. As Adele said at dinner, there is a part of this trip that has broken a prideful part within us and made us more humble.

We enjoyed our final breakfast in the hotel dining room and packed up our belongings to then meet Sally at 1:15 to check out and enjoy a meal with her. She took us to a local restaurant called The Red Earth. We were in a for a treat! Sally ordered some local yummies. We had cold sliced chicken, the bone in along with the visibly uncooked skin with goose bumps, we politely ate a piece and then allowed Jin and Sally to finish this, a plate of various blanched mushrooms tossed in sesame oil and fantastic dumplings. The dumplings were stuffed with assorted meats, carrots and some even had fruit. Then the most beautiful part of the lunch event came out! Please see the picture of the local spring traditional lunch.

It was a beautifully ornate brass pot (dragons over it) with an alcohol burner. In the pot were all sorts of "things" including, leeks, potatoes, potato noodles, seaweed, balls of fish, sausage, other meats, vegetables, sea cucumbers (long black, slimy sea creatures), honey dew melon and more. It was truly something different! That's all I have to say about that...

After lunch we went back to the "relic" market where we went earlier. We had ordered name chops, blocks of stone with the boys' names carved in them. we watched the artists carve these with a hammer and chisel. Extraordinary! At a tea shop we bought several items and the proprietor insisted we sit and enjoy the tea ceremony, which we did. A photo is included. As tea is such a significant part of the culture it was interesting to have her explain that on the table were several small clay animals and such that she poured tea on, for good luck, blessings, etc.

Our tea hostess. She served us black tea which she bought especially for herself.

It is such people as this nice lady who was excited to share her culture, Sally and Susan, our guides who have taught us well and cared for us, and other kind people along the way who have really made this trip a blessing...

As Jin would say, "WOW!!!"

Sally, our guide, bought Jin a treat from a street vendor, which is pictured. It was something like candied crab apples on a stick, rolled in sesame seeds. It was called tang hu lu, the fruit called shan zha, very tart little apples. Jin licked the candy off; did not like the candy. Last night on the plane our dinner came with a bowl of four little "apples" about the size of a pecan in the shell, I think they might be called haws haws. No taste.

We returned to the Lanzhou airport through the Red Mountains that struck us so fascinating earlier. The clay from these mountains is used to make bricks so it was of interest to see the people making a living by making bricks out of this foreboding landscape.

A view of the Red Mountains from our van

Are we there yet?

We made it to Guangzhou last night near midnight. The others in our travel group arrived earlier so it was nice to meet back up with them at breakfast and meet their little china doll daughters, ages 2 and 6. Beautiful, sweet girls with dark hair and bright black eyes. We (Jin, Adele and Clint) were all wound up so it took a while before we crashed. We must say, the room at the China Hotel (Marriott) is very plush and the hot shower was very welcome. Of course we then felt bad about being spoiled westerners. This afternoon when Jin "discovered" the big, deep bathtub he took off his clothes and asked for a bath! He loved playing in it for about 20 minutes.

Hearing Test

This morning required us to go to a medical facility of exams. Here we met many other American families who were also adopting. We three families somehow thought our children looked brighter and healthier... It was quite the spectacle with all the crying, squirming children being shuttled from exam room to exam room. Mike Kellam, member of our travel group, is a doctor so it has been interesting to have him explain certain medical things to us. We noted the exams were done without gloves!

Well, after all that we had cheeseburgers and fries at Lucy's, a staple of the adoption scene. It is an American style restaurant decorated in movie posters and American license plates! This meal was included in our package. A cheeseburger never tasted so good. The exam and Lucy's is located on Shamain Island and it is here we do all of our shopping. Today we bought 5 traditional silk costumes for the boys, in various sizes and colors. They were five for 200 yuan, which is about 5 bucks each outfit. Tomorrow, after church, we will have more time to shop. All the treasures of China right here at our finger tips! :)

One other note about people, tonight our hotel was host to a grand and elaborate wedding party with hundreds of people filling the lobby and fresh roses by the bushel. We understand it was a Chinese movie star. We saw her; she was stunning. Last night we saw on TV the State Funeral of a the man who was known as the Father of the Chinese space program. Sally was telling us that her father in law is a retired interpreter. During Mao's Cultural Revolution, as an academic, he was imprisoned for 10 years. These run-ins have shown us we are very blessed to be having such educational experiences and is giving us a greater appreciation for the great Chinese people.

My 1st bubble bath- bubbles are great!

As we get ready for bed with Jin in his Buzz Lightyear pjs, we thank you for your prayers and huge well wishes! Jin did great with the doctors and we return Monday to have his TB test read. Please pray all the children, in our group- 3, are TB free as we look towards flying home very soon. The Lord is great and greatly He should be praised for his enduring love and protection. Know we miss all of you and look forward to returning to Nashvegas soon.

Love,
The Holloways

Journal Entry- Thursday, November 5, 2009

2009-12-20T22:42:00.001-06:00

To God be the Glory great things He has done...

Thank you for the prayers. Today has been a better day by far!

Mr. Wu, our driver

Some of you may wonder how we get around in China. We are blessed to have private drivers and a small "van." Our driver, who most certainly must be one of the most gifted drivers we have ever seen, is a Mr. Wu. In talking today with Sally and Mr. Wu, we learned Wu has two children, a daughter 15 and a son 10. This is a large family by today's standards. When the son was born it was not allowed that they have two children so Wu paid a fine of 7,000 Yuan, which is slightly more than $1,000. While we do not know his salary we do know that 300 Yuan is not an unsual monthly salary, that is about $45! Wu said he was happy to pay it as he loves children and was content to get a son. However, he did advise our guide, Sally, to stop at one!

As for driving, I think we have mentioned it is every man for themselves. Today Mr. Wu made a casual U turn across six lanes of traffic like it was altogether common, which it probably is, but to us it felt like a near death experience!

This morning, as with several mornings, we awoke to some fog, but realized that the lion's share of it may actually be smog. This has caused us some nasal difficulties. Thank goodness we brought alka seltzer. Like we mentioned with the zoo, we take such things as clean air and clean water for granted. We cannot drink the water or brush teeth with it, we must use bottled water. Most of China does not have potable water. While we are on the subject...bathrooms. In the hotels we have western toilets, though sometimes no tissue (better carry your own), but out in the real world we mostly encounter squatty potties. A shock to our western mentalities!

Sally, our local guide

Today was a day of rest while Sally worked on our paperwork, going to and from the Notary and offiicals making sure everything is signed, sealed and delivered. This morning she did take us to Dragon Park for a very nice stroll alongside the Yellow River. As it is Dragon Park dragons are everywhere, including a large bronze stylized dragon on top of a 2 story granite pillar. We were able to take a few steps down to the river and on about 2 feet of sand were able to touch the river and throw rocks in it, which Jin loved. There were many, many colored rocks in the river; tiny green pebbles we wondered if they might be Jade, which is common here but prized around the world. As the river is 5000 km long these pebbles may wash from thousands of miles away.

In the park we had the local specialty tea at a little cafe (that is a generous description). It is called something like 8 Charo Tea. It was served in large glass root beer mugs with a huge carafe of hot water. The mugs contained the 8 elements: green tea leaves, a huge rock of sugar, red dates, rose buds, an apricot, wolf berries, raisins, and an unknown seed pod called a longan (all dried). To make tea you rinse all of this with one round of hot water, then dup the water, then fill the mug to the brim with hot water and let steep. You can get two good mugs of tea from this then you can eat most of the stuff! It was different, tasty.

Tea is a very important part of the culture and many people are seen carrying their tea. Yesterday, we also had a traditional Chinese tea ceremony in the hotel lobby, they thought we wanted to buy the table at a cost of $10,000. The tea ceremony was fascinating, but not enough tea to wet your whistle!

Thank you to everyone who share your prayers and encouragement over yesterday's discipline issues. Today they were considerably abated, but we also made sure he had his nap, took things easier and had Sally, our guide, give him a firm talk in Chinese. We have learned a few Chinese phrases, so that helps too. But most importantly we started the day with a family prayer that things would be better....how often we neglect the most important tools we have as parents? Calling upon our own Heavenly Father for peace, patience, guidance and love.

Though Jin does not know Jesus, religious instruction being forbidden in the orphanage, we have tried to pray before each meal (I am sure this also draws looks as we bow our heads and fold our hands). This morning, in the hotel dining room we forgot our breakfast prayers. After a bite or two, Jin stopped, folded his hands and looked at us expectantly. Praise the Lord for giving increase to tiny seeds planted in trust and love.

Grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. 2 Peter 3:18

Friday night, the 6th, we fly southeast to Guangzhou to meet up with our travel group, the Coys and Kellams and our guide, Susan. Early Saturday morning all the children will go through a very thorough medical exam and consulate paperwork. We request prayers of swift procedures, easy paperwork, a safe and noneventful 1st airplane ride for Jin, and continued peace and joy.

Good night one and all,
The Holloways

Journal Entry- Wednesday, November 4, 2009

2009-12-20T22:20:00.001-06:00

Hello Folks,

Today's message will largely be about gastronomical delights. As you can imagine Chinese food is very different, much different than "American Chinese food". Last night we went the local grocery rather than eat in the hotel. On the same street as the grocery they had an evening market where you could go and buy your evening meal from one of dozens and dozens of street vendors. Most of the items available consisted of various meats and veggies on sticks that could then be roasted over small coal fires right in front of you. We certainly had no idea what meats were being offered. We did see many kinds of fish, squid, beef, pork and other "skinned things." Because we have a hard time communicating other than pointing we were sort of at the mercy of fate. We did try some things on sticks, but have no clue what they were! Maybe not a good idea? We also had some potatoes that were diced, deep fried and then seasoned in front of us. Again, no idea of the seasoning but they were delicious! We also had a "corn treat" on a stick that was somewhat similar to a sweetened, congealed corn mush! We thought it was pineapple when were buying it! Today at the market we also bought some apples that tasted like pears, nearly translucent in color, and served sold nearly ice cold. Delicious! Another interest fruit, pictured, is red dragon fruit. The skin is red, the flesh white with black seeds and somewhat the taste of kiwi. Tonight's dinner consisted of half a roasted duck, sliced off the bone then served with onions and a thick brown sauce.

All of this was wrapped in a small rice flour tortilla. Good but duck is very fatty. One last food note that is interesting, each night the maid comes around, knocks on the door and hands us mini Kit Kat bars! How funny!

Today our guide took us to 5 Springs Mountain which is a park, zoo, temple complex and more. We saw Taoist shrines, a Confucian courtyard and a Buddhist Temple with a 600 year old bronze Buddha about 15 feet tall.

Confucius

Here in this park complex is a favorite place for the elderly to walk and get their exercise. Some also come here to play their musical instruments, pipes and small horns. We told one horn player we liked his music. He said we looked like happy Buddhas. This is becoming a theme. The zoo was a site.... The animals were in cement enclosures, pits and large cages...no grass, no clean water. It made us appreciative of the fine zoo in Nashville.

Jin's favorite cloth sculpture

Today was a bit of a rough day with Jin...we have heard the third day with the child can be. Discipline issues began today as he is testing us, pushing the boundaries and seeing what we are made of. Also, he was tired today and that made things worse. While we are prepared for this it is hard, particularly when the issue/discipline occurs in public. We are already the object of curiosity, being westerners, but accompanied by a Chinese child draws further stares. Of course, we may be overly sensitive, but at times it feels as though the eyes of the whole city are upon us! Please pray for strength for us in this regard.

We had tea this afternoon in the hotel.

We shared in the Chinese tea ceremony.

Thank you for all your well wishes and prayers and good wishes. We feel them giving us strength. Please feel free to reply, we like sharing with you, but as this email goes to about 200 people, please be careful not to hit reply to all. Thanks!

Love to you all,
We Three in Chi-ny

Journal Entry- Tuesday, November 3, 2009

2009-12-20T21:58:00.001-06:00

Greeting from Lanzhou,
We pray this email finds you well; we are experiencing wondrous adventures daily. Last night we ventured out for dinner and to get some air. We walked to KFC. Yes, you read that right. The Colonel is very popular here. It was refreshing to order using a number off the menu. Jin had chicken nuggets and fries along with hot milk. The Chinese are used to drinking hot milk especially children. Sally, our guide here, said that they have mild stomachs, but they can handle beef noodles for breakfast?!

Jin was happy to drink the hot milk. We also bought him new shoes in mall and found a park for him to release some energy. He is certainly going to give Jon Campbell a run for his money! The two will be twin terrors!

Our adoption agency here gave each parent a lanyard to wear as we travel about which explains in Chinese that we adopted Jin. When we show that to people they seem to warm up to and smile. Many will then fawn over him. It makes us feel better too. Sally, our guide, is wonderful. She is with us 3-4 hours during the day as we site see. She is very informative. We are blessed by her kindness and thoughtfulness. We are grateful to learn more about the Chinese culture from her as her English is very good. We have experienced the Chinese attentiveness, kindness as well as self- assertiveness.

Have we mentioned there seems to be no driving rules or laws present nor enforced here? It is every car, van, bicycle and motor bike for itself. Pedestrians be ware! We crossed the streets ourselves and made it safely. We aren't joking when we say Chinese drivers are better and crazier than New York City drivers.

Today we visited the Yellow River which flows right along Lanzhou. It is roughly 5,000 plus km long. It is very sandy too. Attached you will see a bridge which crosses over the river which is from Germany and was to only last 80 years, but it is now over 100 years old, built in 1905. It took over 1 year to be shipped from Germany.

The Yellow River

We walked along the river which is bordered with Water Willow trees. It is quite beautiful. Alongside the river's edge there is a large area for exercising. The Chinese are very conscience about exercising. The area, where they exercise, is like an adult playground. Please see the attached photo.

We tried it out too; it was great even for Happy Buddhas :)

Then we visited a historic tourist site, the Water Wheel. 500 years ago they drew water from the Yellow River with these wheels to irrigate. Please also see the last photo which shows a real sheepskin raft. These were used to float up and down the river. They are made from entire sheep bodies which have been tanned and blown up. No joke! Honestly, they were disgusting to see in person.

Come float down the river on me

OMG- they really do float!

From here we walked around an open air market not far from our hotel. It was another world within itself, you can almost imagine being in an ancient Chinese market. There was stall after stall of jade, beads, coins, carvings, brushes, calligraphy, and the like. Many people had their items displayed on the ground.

Sally treated us to a meal of Beef Noodles. It was great. I felt Chinese myself. Many restaurants don't have actual doors to open during the day, but with it be cold; you walk thru plastic strips which block the cold in the doorway. Health codes are of no concern :) But the meal was great. (Yes, we had tetanus shots before we came!) There were 3 rows of long metal tables; we sat on short metal stools and ate our beef noodles with a little vinegar. You grab them with chop sticks bring them to your mouth and slurp! We asked Sally why vinegar and she said it makes it taste even better. Jin was in heaven. He loves them. They were mild according to Sally. Clint really enjoyed them even though he is not one to eat spicy items. The Lord has shown us a lot about ourselves and how we view people not like us. We are still getting many "looks".

Those are some spicy beef noodles!

Beef Noodles

After our afternoon rest we ventured out by ourselves. We took some clothes to the laundry then went to the grocery store and got a few things we could eat for dinner and for the educational experience. Jin carried the basket and kept throwing things in! When we emerged from the grocery store (partially underground) the street had been transformed into a two block long market of vendors selling fruits, veggies, roasted meats and such. There were so many things on sticks to eat you cannot believe it, even mini squids! All you do is pick your meat, veggie, and starch and then they cook and season it over tiny coal fired grills. It was sometimes revolting, but incredibly fascinating. We tried some delicious deep fried potatoes and some meat on sticks....what was it? We don't know but it cost 15 cents a stick!

What we thought was pineapple....it's actually made of corn.

We did not try any of this!

Our meat cooking...well, we hope it was meat?!

A few words from yesterday we forgot to mention. When we presented our gifts to the orphanage staff, one gift was a large fabric wall hanging of the US quilted by Adele's Mom, Karin. It is very colorful and attractive for children. We showed them where we live in Nashville and where another of their former children lives. They seemed especially pleased with this.

A few notes about Jin. He seems to be adjusting to us well. One street asked him if we were his mama and papa, two words we understand; he pointed to us and said Mama! Papa! He is eating very well, we have to control that he does not eat too much. He drinks lots of water and seems very happy. He is sleeping well at night and naps for an hour about mid-day. He is mimicking our words and can count to ten. Thank you for your prayers and messages of good cheer. They are gifts from God and a boon to our spirits. We thank God for you!
Clint, Adele and Jin

Journal Entry- Monday, November 2, 2009

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Hello All,
This will be from Jin's Papa. I know Adele gave you the news for SUNDAY. It was a thrilling day, 3 years in the making. When he saw us he came running with arms open wide! We sent pictures to him earlier so he would know us when we did meet. How thrilled we were! He has a very sweet spirit, not unlike his brother. He had saved for us pieces of candy from the care package we sent to him several weeks ago. Can you imagine a 4 year old saving candy to give to his parents? He saved a lollipop for Jon Campbell, too! Then, as the Nanny got him ready Sunday to come to us, he asked to save a hard boiled egg from his lunch as a gift for his parents!

Today we spent the morning with notaries and an official signing papers and adding our thumb prints.

Notary, left, and goverment official playing with Jin and his Handy Manny toy during the paperwork process. He is a charmer for sure!

With the paper work finished, we say good bye to Jin's orphange family.

The gentleman holding Jin is the orphange Director often called Papa or Uncle. The lady pictured is an orphange employee who was nanny to Joshua, Jin's best buddy now living in Michigan.

He "signed" his name with a full handprint! Afterwards we presented gifts to various officials and the orphanage staff. We had a lunch of sliced pig fat....that is the last time we let the guides order for us! We have also had roasted buckeyes, ox, duck, lamb and other things I have elected not to inquire of their origin, animal, vegetable and mineral!

Waitresses are smitten by Jin

Tomorrow and the next few days we will see some sites here while our paperwork is completed. We are at the end/start of the ancient Silk Road, the desert being not far off. The countryside is the bleakest; yet striking I have ever seen with ancient "sandstone" mountains. Lanzhou is much different than Beijing, being so far inland. Lanzhou has little rain yearly so they irrigate daily from the Yellow River. They have planted trees along the mountain sides which don't grow very tall as a result. Your eyes are opened to have vast and diverse the world is just in a short ride from the airport to Lanzhou. We are blessed abundantly! Many people who live in between the airport and the main city are farmers; fruit, wheat and corn. There is also a brick factory in Lanzhou. The ground is so dry it is good for dust storms and making bricks. We also saw holes in the mountains. That is where the farmers rest from the heat and keep their farming tools. As our guide said, “not so rich and cosmopolitan as Beijing.” As one of only a few westerners we have gotten many looks and today were likened to Happy Buddhas! Yeah, flattering!

Journal Entry- Sunday, November 1, 2009- Gottcha Day!

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Happy 95th Birthday Grandpa Adinolfi! How fitting we got Jin today. We landed in Lanzhou this after a little later than expected due to SNOW! That is not a type o. We had snow when we woke up this morning. I am sorry, but this email will be short because our beds are calling. We are beginning our bed time routine and schedule tonight. I promise to share everything tomorrow. In short, The Lord is so good! Our first encounter was full of hugs, smiles, tears and laughter. We hope you enjoy the photos too.

Love the Holloways-4

Grand Soluxe Hotel Lobby

We meet Jin just feet away from here 10 minutes after we check into our room.

Jin and his Papa

Jin and his Mama

Pizza dipped in ketchup is not very good?!

Listening to his new Mario Brothers toothbrush play music

Jon Campbell picked this out for Jin and he played it all the time!

Journal Entry- Saturday, October 31, 2009

2009-12-20T20:08:00.005-06:00

Good Evening,
Clint and I are doing great. We slept great and were up and ready to go at 5:30 AM. WOW!!!! We had a fantastic first full day in China. We experienced many varied cultural moments. Our breakfast was great.

Red Dragon Fruit

We had Red Dragon fruit. It is similar to kiwi, but white in color with small black specks throughout with a red skin. We also tried a cucumber smoothie. Not bad :)

Our legs got a full workout as we walked thru Tianaman Square. That was a surreal moment. It was a beautiful day for walking and the sun really warmed up by mid day which was great because it was quite cold this morning.

Outside the Forbidden City

Our Travel Group- Forever Families

left to right- Braden, Amy and Mike Kellam, Clint and Adele and Brian and Melissa Coy

We then proceeded to the Forbidden City, the home of the Chinese Emperors. Talk about long.... We walked and walked.

The architecture was magnificent. What is seen to the left is all hand carved and constructed without any nails. It is all tounge and groove.

Inside one of the palace buildings.

Clint and our fantastic, wonderfully sweet guide Susan. She is an employee of A Helping Hand, our adoption agency. Her sweet smile alone is testimate to her caring spirit and kindness.

A typical Beijing sidewalk

Then off to Olympic Park to see the Bird's Nest and Water Cube. Vendors are all over the streets trying to persuade you to buy their wares, quite persistently!. Talk about a "new" experience. We have noted how clean this part of the city is. It was impressive to see people cleaning the trash cans and handrails as well. After a great Chinese lunch we headed for the pinnacle moment, THE GREAT WALL OF CHINA!!!!!!! This was the highlight for all of us. I will admit that some climbed more than others :) My great fear of heights and "wonder knee" hampered my experience, but one can still admire the awesomeness and amazement of the wall which spans more than 6,000 km over 7 provinces. Clint did a great job and climbed a good portion. After experiencing Beijing traffic at 5 PM we arrived back at our hotel very tired to say the least. We have a great guide, Susan, who has worked for A Helping Hand for 8 years. We will meet up with her in Guangzhou next Friday. Well, tomorrow is HUGE for the Holloways. We climb aboard another plan and fly to the Gansu Provenience to meet the little one we have all been waiting for. We fly out around 11 AM and we think we will get him between 3 and 4 in the afternoon, Sunday, November 1st.

Thank you for all the great replies.

Love to you all,

Clint and Adele

Clint survives the Great Wall

Journal Entry- Friday, October 30, 2009

2009-12-20T20:03:00.000-06:00

Hello Everyone,
We made it safe and sound and really without incident for the most part. Our flight was delayed 2 hours due to a Chinese deportee. We are travelling with 2 other families, the Coys from Ohio, and the Kellems from Indiana. Wouldn't you know we know people in common with the Kellems. Mike Kellem used to work in the same practice with Milligan alums, the Frasures and they go to church with the Nices and Bishops who are also Milligan alums. It is a small world!

Beijing Airport Customs & Immigration

We have a full day ahead tomorrow so off to bed with the help of Tylenol PM. I have tried accessing our blog, but having issues on the site. Thank you for the prayers! It is still a little surreal for the moment. It is cloudy, grey and wet, but we are very happy!

Our 1st Chinese Meal in Beijing

Susan, our guide, wrote out in Chineses several typical Chinese dishes which we would recognize. We didn't know the meals were served family style so in the end we could've fed a small village. Oh well, you live and learn. Regardless, the food was great!

All our love,
Clint and Adele

Journal Entry- Wednesday, October 28, 2009

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Below is the 1st email we sent before our departure. We hope you enjoy the recap of our trip to China including extra pictures.

We leave for China in the morning, central time, at 6:15 AM. If you have time please watch us on our blog too. If you reply to this email please ensure you use reply and not reply to all- Thank you

Our blog address is http://journeytojin.blogspot.com

Thank you for support, hugs, shoulders to cry on, advise, concern, love, joy and the list goes on and on.......
Love,
The Holloways (Clint, Adele, Jon Campbell and JIN :)

His 1st Haircut

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Jin's 1st American Haircut

Today, Jin joyfully encountered his 1st haircut. He got right up in the chair with a smile and loved the cape. Ashley was quite impressed that Jin sat so well. To tell the truth, I was too.

"Look at me, Mama!"

We celebrated with lunch at Burger King

5043 Briarwood Dr.- Where the Wild Things Are?!

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I could not resist the title... Where the Wild Things Are

The boys are wearing Where the Wild Things Are pjs we bought before our trip. They are adorable pjs including all the book characters. Is it a coincidence they are a matched set?! By the way, we did not tell them to fold their hands :)

Our 1st Weekend Home Together

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Our first morning together

Both boys woke up happy, excited and ready to play.

They played all morning long.

We are adjusting well. Jon Campbell is learning to share first hand. We have our moments, but we bounce back well.

Making Music Together

One of our special gifts to the boys were hand made calabash flutes. We picked them up in Guangzhou. Our guide had told us never pay full price in Guangzhou. We should aim to barter down the price by 30%. Bartering with "Jack," the shopkeeper, was a hoot. I was successful and Jack threw in a nice carrying case for each one. They are made from a gourd and have hand painting scenes on the gourds. The mouth piece is made from ox bone. They work very similiar to a recorder.

King of the Big Wheel

Saturday, the 14th, was picture perfect weather. After playing inside until lunch Jon Campell and Jin played outside with neighbors Thomas, Audrey, Luke and another boy. Jin tried out the scooter, big wheel and tricycle. Inspite of difficulty with his foot he loved the big wheel. He drove up and down the driveway at least a hundred times. The kids also enjoyed a treat together- Chinese Strawberry Candy. It was good!

Story Time with Papa

Jin is adjusting well to our family schedule. From the first night Jin has been an excellent sleeper and was used to a strict daily routine. Bath time and bed time are full of excitement and giggles, for sure. We are (Clint and I especially) learning to laugh more, too :)

Rolling in the grass with Grandma

Grandma, Clint's Mom from Indiana, enjoyed the Sunday afternoon with the boys. It was another beautiful day so after church and a trip to Dunkin Donuts, they played in the leaves and rolled through the grass. Then we went to Dragon Park to play on the huge playground. Jin and Jon Campbell loved chasing each other, taking trips down the slide and rolling down the grassy hill again and again. We ended this outing with a trip to Whole Foods in Green Hills. We had to get a snack after all the fun. Jin enjoyed his first taste of gellato. He licked the bowl clean.

On the way home we were reminded of China's little regard for traffic safety, nor do they wear seat belts. Jin was wearing a seat belt without a problem until he realized he could unclick the belt himself. His big brother's "informant skills" (aka tattling!) came in handy that time as we drive down Hilsboro Road.

First Trip to the Nashville Zoo

Monday, the 16th, we all enjoyed a trip to the zoo. Look at that smile! Jin loved all the animals. His favorite is the monkey. He became very excited when he saw the zebras, too. He had a ride on the merry go round with Grandma. Oh, how he wanted to stay on that all afternoon. Throughout this journey, many times we have been struck with the thought that Jin has never done this or that or Jin has never tasted things like whipped cream and the list goes on and on. During our trip to China, Clint and I experienced a great deal of humility as we stood out like a sore thumb. For awhile Jin will experience, taste, encounter and live out many experiences we have done forever. My prayer is to remember how much we have and never to take anything for granted. We have been given much and much will be required.

Playing with a goat

Jin could have played wit the goats all morning. At first he was a little scared of the ones walking around free in the gated area, but when he saw the babies behind the fence he fell in love immediately. He fed the baby goat straw, brushed its hair and petted it with a huge grin on his face the entire time. (Of course, he might of been thinking they are tasty with soy sauce, too!) Please note- Clint added that final line.

Arriving in Nashville, TN!

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Waiting for us to arrive in the airport was our Jon Campbell with his 2 grandmothers, Grandma and Baba along with sweet Donna and Peggy from church. Cameras ready, eyes full of tears along with bright red, white and blue balloons bobbing in the air anticipating our descent down the steps when we introduced our Jin to his forever family. Jon Campbell couldn't wait as he he met us half way up the stairs crying out, "Papa, Mama!" He excitedly greeted his new brother with a hug and a huge smile and then handed him a stuffed teddy bear. Jin in exchange gave Jon Campbell a new panda dressed in traditional Chinese clothes.

Adele and her boys

After we arived home our neighbors, the Fitchels, came over to welcome us home. WOW! Jin had so much to explore and take in as did we. Right off he dug into the toy basket downstairs and found some new treasures. Buzz Lightyear was a hit.

Jin sees his bed for the 1st time

Everyone was excited and a little tired, but that did not stop us form enjoying a snack together. It had been 12 hours since we had a full meal.

Around midnight we all had reached our limit and bedtime was in sight or so I thought :) Teeth brushed; pjs on; prayers said and in the bed. It was a wonderful feeling to be home with both our boys as we tucked them in and passed out hugs and kisses and kisses and some more kisses. Lights went out as Clint and I left the room. "We love you both and no talking," were our last words. We hurried off to bed too because the only thing holding up our eyes were toothpicks. We were very earger to enjoy our own bed and matress and don't you know it.... We heard "Hee, heee, haaaaaa, giggle, giggle, heeee!" There was a lull of quiet and then, " Haaaa, giggle, giggle, he, he, haaaaa!" After 3 trips to their room of tough, sleepy, love and correction they both fell to sleep. Clint was very confident they would fall asleep eventually. He was right. After 30 minutes they were out for the night. Of course as I tucked myself in I couldn't help but to chuckle myself. We have been waiting so very long to hear laughter in stero. Thank you Lord for a double blessing.

We're Back

2009-11-17T16:46:00.002-06:00

We 3 from China

Leila, Jin and Lily

Friday, November 13th, we all woke up excited to board Continental Flight 86. Home was so close we could taste it. Boy, we were very ready and anxious to return. Please don't think that our trip was bad. It was not at all. Our trip to China was amazing and such a blessing! The past 2 weeks felt like 2 months, we were very tired, longed to see Jon Campbell, our family and friends, sleep in our own bed and possibly eat some regular and familiar food. Can you tell Clint is not fond of FISH :)

Our travel group, now 10 in total, flew from Shanghai, China to Newark, NJ. We began our travel home with lunch from Burger King in the airport :) Thank goodness our flight was running on time and the weather was good for the most part. After alot of wiggle time, seat squirming and movie channel switching, Jin actually slept the last 6 hours of the flight. It was a great to be back in the United States. We were able to move very quickly thru Immigration as we handed over Jin's brown paper sealed Visa documents. Minus a few pieces of paperwork, Jin Taylor Holloway is an American Citizen! We anxiously retrieved our luggage and darted to the closest Continental Desk to confirm our connecting flight to Nashville. We were home free; we thought. Apparently our 8 PM flight was cancelled at 8 AM Friday morning for unknown reasons. UGHHHH! Yes, we were tired, hungry and the hair did not look good at all and now we had no flight. The next open flight was leaving Saturday, the 14th at 2 PM. There was a possiblility to catch a standby flight leaving at 7:30 PM that night. We quickly took an airtrain to terminal A along with a quick restroom stop, proceeded thru security again and husseled to our gate. Thanks to the help of Gloria, a Continential Employee, we got the last 3 seats on the flight which should've left at 5:30 PM. God is so good. We were definitley going home Friday night.

USA Bound!

The Room is Ready

2009-11-17T09:25:00.002-06:00

Before we left for China a lot of scrambling was done to get the room ready for Jin's arrival. After some thought and a little persuasion we decided that Jon Campbell and Jin would share a room. All Jin has ever know was a room with other children as well as falling asleep with other children near him so we decided for now the boys would share. Jon Campbell's first reaction to this idea was "But Jin will talk all night and I won't be able to sleep." Kids are so funny!

Many of you know that Jon Campbell is a die hard Thomas the Tank Engine fan so naturally Thomas would be the theme of the new bedroom. Baba, Adele's mother, made each of the boys a Thomas bed quilt. New bedroom curtains are currently in production too. Jon Campbell made a trip to Joann's with his Baba to help pick out the material. That was an adventure. Jin even received a Thomas the Tank Engine stuffed pillow for his bed. The room received a painting facelift by our friend Mr. Steve along with a new fan and light fixture. After a new rug for reading, new Thomas pictures for the walls and new sheets for Jin, the room is ready for a new brother to arrive.

Shower of Blessings

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Adele is blessed to work with a great group of volunteers in the Children's Ministry of Aspen Grove Christian Church. Clint and Adele have been a part of this congregation for over 8 years now. Our congregation has seen us through a multitiude of joyful and lifechanging events from our wedding, sugergy and the birth of Jon Campbell. We are extrememly grateful to all of them for their continued love, support and life long friendships.

Toot, Toot, Toot, the shower train arrived on Saturday, October 17th. The theme was trains. The boys' room is decked out in Thomas the Tank Engine decor.

Everyone had a great time and the food was wonderful!

Thank you for all the wonderful clothes, toys and gift cards. It will all come in very handy as we prepare to meet Jin within weeks.

Jon Campbell was very excited too. He and Jin got matching Christmas pjs. Christmas is just around the corner and what an event that will be in the Holloway household! Thank you friends for showering us with unbelieveable blessings of love and support. We are very grateful.

Toys R Us- Papa and Jon Campbell had a blast!

2009-10-13T18:46:00.000-05:00

Today after school Papa and Jon Campbell went on an adventure in search of a special gift. Jon Campbell had to make a HUGE decision and pick out a gift for his brother. We have been very intentional with Jon Campbell as we transition to a new brother very soon. Our goal is to prepare him as much as possible; if that is possible?! Kids love toys and we know that Jin will be no different. So what better way to welcome Jin than with a new toy especially picked out by his brother. Clint, armed with the patience of a saint, bravely took Jon Campbell to Toys R Us to complete the mission. I am glad they made it out with only 1 bag!

After many back and forth options, Jon Campbell chose a Handy Manny Worksite for Jin.

It is perfect! It is small enough for the suitcase and has a Matchbox truck included along with a carrying case.

Journey to Jin Spaghetti Dinner at Oak Hill School last night

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Grandma Adinolfi's Spaghetti Sauce was a hit last night!

Last night in the Oak Hill School Dining Hall, where I work, our family hosted a homemade spaghetti dinner for our friends and our Oak Hill School Family. Clint and I were very overwhelmed with the huge response and amount of support we raised as the Dining Hall was full of fellow OHS employees, families and friends. My Grandmother's homemade sauce was served over warm spaghetti served with warm garlic toast, a wonderful salad with Kim's own croutons and a huge array of homemade desserts made with love by Kim Rogers, Jin's BaBa, Karin Adinolfi and Jin's Papa, Clint (all of this taking place with Dean Martin singing in the background). The night could not have been a success without the help of Kim and Niki, from the Dining Hall, BaBa, Becky and Brenda serving up a storm and all the others adding the finishing touches...Carolyn. I don't want to forget Jin's BIG BROTHER, JON CAMPBELL! He was a huge help and Mama and Papa couldn't have been prouder.

Jon Campbell passes out the parm. and unloads the homemade desserts!

It takes a village...

THANK YOU for enjoying spaghetti with us and supporting our JOURNEY to JIN.

Jon Campbell and Christian - Judson Buddies

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JOSHUA & JIN on the PLAYGROUND
Jin is in the red jacket and Joshua is in the yellow.

Jin already has a life long friend in the United States very eager to see him again. We received an email from Terrie Pilz, from Michigan, about 2 months ago. She heard that we were matched to Jin and couldn't wait to make contact us. You may wonder why.... Well, their son Joshua, in the picture to the left, grew up with Jin in the same orphanage. We heard from Terrie that Joshua was very excited and began yelling when he saw Jin's picture on the website. The Nannies shared with Terrie that Jin and Joshua are best buddies. Terrie sent us a bunch of pictures from the orphanage of both boys together very happy indeed. God's timing once again is amazing. We had something very concrete to hold onto which brought us a great deal of comfort. Terrie has
blessed us with wisdom, helpful facts, ideas and a very fresh perspective. They brought Joshua home early this spring and he is talking up an English storm. THANK YOU TERRIE!

Our final travel meeting was Thursday

2009-10-10T15:24:00.000-05:00

Thursday afternoon was our last travel meeting via a conference call with Mike Ginter from A Helping Hand. The very exciting news is we will travel with 2 other families from Newark, NJ to China and back; the Kellams, from Indiana, and the Coys, from Ohio. The Kellams and Coys are actually getting children from the same orphanage. During this meeting we ran through a final list of paperwork necessities and reminders. This is the easiest portion of the paperwork journey!
We travel 19 days from today! Many are asking us how we are doing?! The honest answer is we are very excited, stressed out, nervous, anxious, happy, tearful, grateful, and joyful all in one. I never thought that was possible. The journey has a been a long one and the reality of our son has not yet hit me. As an expected mother I cry at the drop of a hat :) I am trying to figure out what my first words should be to Jin. Will he be excited, happy or scared. Can you imagine leaving the only place, bed and nannies you have known since birth to go to your forever family which you can't understand. It will all come together somehow. I want Jin to know he is loved and safe. I can't wait to get my arms around him and bring him home!

Kids say the darndest things

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Jon Campbell, right now, is very excited about Brother Jin's upcoming arrival. He is getting used to the idea that they will share a room too. Today in his music class with Mrs. Sanders, he raised his hand, well at least I hope he raised it, and asked if his brother Jin could sing with his class during the Christmas Concert. Mrs. Sanders did not miss a beat and agreed. I believe God is giving us these sweet moments in the midst of our stress and to do lists, as a gentle reminder that it will all be OK and everything will get done before you travel. Thank you as readers for sweet smiles, encouraging words and faithful prayers.

Flight information

2009-10-01T18:29:00.000-05:00

Clint's oldest brother, Clay, is a pilot and has been for may years. He told us yesterday that Continental, which we are flying on, does the Eastbound, polar routes, over Greenland and Russia. Our flight from Newark to Beijing is 12 hours and 15 minutes. WOW, that makes for a long journey. Uncle Clay also commented that engine exhaust makes for some beautiful music to help lull one to sleep. I hope so because Clint without some sleep may make for an interesting trip :) I love you dear!

Some have asked if Jon Campbell is travelling with us and we have decided to leave him at home with his Baba, my mother, and Grandma, Clint's mother. Although the experience would be great, we really don't feel that it would be fair to Jon Campbell or Jin. We would not be able to give Jon Campbell the attention he needs while adjusting to Jin. We want to help Jin get acclimated and being to bond to us as soon as possible. Also, Jon Campbell will stay on his schedule with sleep, school and other activities. This always makes for a much happier boy. The time will go by very quickly for him, his Grandmothers I am not too sure?! Jon Campbell will get spoiled while we are away and that is just fine.

We are leaving on a jet plane...

2009-09-30T21:15:00.000-05:00

Wednesday, September 23rd, we received our long awaited phone call with some very important news. We received word and confirmation of our appointment with the Chinese Consulate which made it possible to set an exact travel date for our trip to China.

Our itinerary is...

10/29- Leave Nashville at 6:27 AM

10/30- Arrive in Beijing, China

10/31- See the sites- Tian An Men Square, the Forbidden City, Olympic Park, and the Great Wall of China

11/1- Travel to Lanzhou, Gansu Province to GET JIN!

11/1-11/6- Get to know Jin, fill out paperwork and see the sites

11/6- Fly to Guangzhou

11/7-11/12- Fill out more paperwork, Jin has medical exams, consulate appointment, take the oath and get his visa

11/12- Fly to Shanghai

11/13- Leave China with our son and return HOME!

11/13- Arrive in Nashville at 10:37 PM

THANK YOU

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Our family would like to thank you for reading our blog. In one day we have received such encouraging feedback. Thank you for the sweet words, the encouraging comments and faithful support along this journey. We especially thank our families for their support, concern, love and open arms. Adoption is not easy and the waiting is a killer. Many have asked why adopt? Why wait this long for a child? We hope this blog will give just a glimpse of what is yet to come. The ups and downs are expected, but I don't think we fully realize the love and joy we are about to experience ourselves. We can't wait for you to meet Jin too.
Again, thank you all!

The care package we sent to China

2009-09-22T17:29:00.000-05:00

Through another adopting family we learned of a care package company serving families like us. LadybugsnLove allows you to purchase different values of packages to send to your child all via the Internet. What a great idea. This company is run by a lady in China who communicates directly and regularly with a number of orphanages. We were like kids in a candy shop not knowing what to buy, but very excited about the process. Part of this package deal includes a letter written by the sender up to 500 words to your child which she would then translates into Chinese to send along with the other purchased items. As a result Jin received books, candy and nuts (to share with his Nannies), pictures of us with captions, our letter. Then we decided to go all out with a CAKE. We thought this treat would be great since it would be shared with his friends. We also included a disposable camera for some cake eating pictures and hopefully some of his orphanage for us to see and keep for him.

Here is the cake. It is amazing and quite beautiful. The writing on it reads Happy Birthday. Apparently, birthdays are not celebrated in the orphanage so this was a very big treat, for sure. When Jon Campbell saw the pictures he was quite upset and started to cry because he wanted to eat the cake with Jin. Hearing him say that brought tears to my eyes. Jon Campbell is very excited about his brother's arrival. He calls him Brother Jin.

Last piece of paperwork arrived last week!!!!!

2009-09-21T19:41:00.000-05:00

Tuesday, September 15th the final piece of paper work from Homeland Security arrived. Clint and I were very excited to say the least. This final document means 2 important things. #1- our adoption agency is now able to schedule our appointment with the Chinese Consulate and #2- we will know our exact travel date within the week. Of course this means we are in the final count down to our departure and meeting our little boy for the 1st time!

We go from a girl to a boy

2009-09-20T19:17:00.000-05:00

About Christmas time in 2008 we received a bulk email from our adoption agency to all waiting families urging us to view a list of additional children needing families. With the Christmas holidays in full swing we looked but simply did not make the time to process what we saw. Well, early in 2009 we received the email a second time. Clint decided maybe this time we would study the list more carefully, so he did. All of the children were adorable; our hearts went out to them. Both boys and girls were included in this list. Many of the children had severe medical challenges requiring extensive surgeries. One little boy caught our eye. The adoption agency in Kentucky had named him "Oliver" on the website. He was born without his 5 toes on his right foot.

This is Jin at 2 years old

Our 1st picture of him

After a lot of prayer and many discussions we decided to inquire about Oliver. Inquiring would not take us out of our place in the waiting line for a "healthy girl." After a few months of waiting again we were allowed to actively seek Oliver as our son if we chose. His Chinese name is Jin Li Min and he is 4 years old. His birthday is June 15, 2005. Yes, that is right if you are doing your math... He is one month younger than Jon Campbell. We were 2nd in line to inquire about Jin. We had to wait to see if another family would continue to pursue him or not. Our prayers continued to be, "Lord, if this is the little one we are meant to have please work it out." The other family was a blended family and they ultimately decided they would withdraw which meant We Three in Tennessee would push forward and pursue Jin as our son! This was a huge praise, but also a bigger decision to make. Do we continue to wait in line for a girl or do we seek Jin? Waiting is very hard and we had been doing that since 2007. As a family we truly believe we are meant to be Jin's forever family. Our intention from the beginning was to help a child, boy or girl. We knew China had many orphaned little girls that is reason we chose China. After all this time we know God had a different plan at a different time for us. Well, as you may guess more paper work was involved, our home study had to be revised and approved along with renewing our fingerprints and our pediatrician writing a letter describing the care plan we would provide Jin when he arrives in the States. After our adoption agency matched us to Jin we then had to wait for China to approve and match us to Jin. We received the final approval from China on July 21, 2009. This was a day of great excitement! We both felt a confirmation from the Holy Spirit that this was the right thing to do when both of us on that day, in different places, had feelings that this was to be day!

On the road to adoption

2009-09-20T15:07:00.000-05:00

Clint and I began this long journey in the summer of 2006 while attending the North American Christian Convention. It was there in the midst of many booths we stumbled across A Helping Hand Adoption Agency from Lexington, KY. Jon Campbell was 14 months old then and we knew our promise to my childhood committment needed to be soon so Jon Campbell would grow up with a sister. So we dove in; filled out mounds of paper work- Clint did the bulk of it; Clint also saw the inside of many offices to get the proper stamps and approvals and then by the 30th of March 2007 our paperwork had finally made its way to China and we were logged in officially! It was a great feeling to know that part of the journey was behind us... Little did we know the wait would take a very long time.

Reading at a young age- what an impact!

2009-09-20T14:44:00.000-05:00

From a young age I, Adele, was encouraged to read, read and read some more. As a preteen biographies caught my attention. A very wise woman encouraged me daily to read, learn and then share that with others. This mentor, encourager, teacher, surrogate Grandmother still loves to soak up knowledge. She desires others to learn and passionately educate themselves. So I tried and I believe today our family is living out what I learned and admired so long ago. I ate up these biographies of great individuals like Andrew Murray, Fanny Crosby, Corrie ten Boom and the list goes on. There were 2 women which made the greatest impact on me as a teen. The life stories of Isobel Kuhn and Amy Carmichael were unbelievable. Each biography was full of adventure, scary situations and riveting decisions. Yet what hit me the most was their committment to saving and loving children as well as sharing the Gospel. I tucked away these examples and committed that someday if I did, Lord willing :), get married we would adopt a child and shower them with love and security.